I am a Tantra facilitator, Tantric body worker and life coach passionate to transmit the ease of living in the moment with safety, compassion, and lived experience.
I guide individuals and couples past the hesitation of vulnerability and emotional suppression into practical, lived freedom. Through somatic practices and a deeply sacred space, I provide the exact tools you need to bypass years of friction, step out of your head, and take radical ownership of your life and relationships.
I am a Tantra facilitator, Tantric body worker and life coach passionate to transmit the ease of living in the moment with safety, compassion, and lived experience.
I guide individuals and couples past the hesitation of vulnerability and emotional suppression into practical, lived freedom. Through somatic practices and a deeply sacred space, I provide the exact tools you need to bypass years of friction, step out of your head, and take radical ownership of your life and relationships.
”The mind wants to know everything, but understanding comes from letting go. By choosing humility over power and stepping vulnerably into the unknown, you drop into the present moment and discover you already feel it all.
Dylan Bonny
Many who arrive at TOTA retreats are trapped in patterns of people-pleasing, emotional suppression, and a lack of self-validation. They hesitate, afraid of the vulnerability required for real change. By holding a safe, entirely non-judgmental space filled with transfigured understanding, I help clients see that navigating their internal landscape is both simple and liberating.
When leading, I become one with the group. I have a journey prepared to take you on, yet each retreat I surrender the program to the present moment as the group needs a different experience. This means each retreat shifts by about 25%, exactly offering what you need in that moment, and I love it! It highlights how the Tantric Path invites us to live in the here and now, surrendering to what life offers. The environment remains completely relaxed, and absolutely every emotion, question, or disagreement is welcome.
My journey began over a decade ago. Initial consciousness retreats opened my world and gave me the vocabulary for what I had felt my whole life. However, they also became a temporary prison: I understood what needed to be done, but I was unable to take the action. This friction led me to Tantra. A pivotal retreat opened my closed heart and initiated a deep, effortless commitment to this path.
Since then, I have:
Co-created an international Tantra school alongside my partner, using our 10-year relationship as the primary catalyst and testing ground for transformation.
Facilitated hundreds of retreats and workshops, maintaining an 80% continuation rate for introductory module participants.
Achieved certification as a professional coach and completed over 100 sessions as a professional Tantra masseur.
The Spiritual path of Tantra is one that offers everything you long for and my objective is to open that door for you, hold the space, and offer you my complete support allowing you to bypass years of potential suffering while integrating a fulfilled life within your current life from day 1. I provide the structure and the sacred container, but the choice to walk the path remains yours.
I do not teach theoretical concepts, I transmit a lived experience. My space is sacred, and I transmit that energy so you can feel it for yourself, elevating the depth of the work. By utilizing the body as an intelligent vessel through breath, sound, and movement. we alter internal contexts and resolve subjective problems physically rather than conceptually.
Clients who complete my workshops walk away with:
Practical Frameworks: Actionable methods to navigate daily life, regulate emotions, and validate their own experiences.
Radical Ownership: The shift from external blame to taking full responsibility for their reality.
Authentic Expression: The capacity to express needs and set boundaries without the reflex to please others.
